I met a goal!
Yeah. Probably not something to brag about (and likely a bit embarrassing to make note of), but this is what we've come to, people. It is, indeed, noteworthy for me to say I met a goal.
It was at the eleventh hour (actually just into the tenth), but I made it!
A few months ago I received this wonderful book from a friend of mine. I read the introduction and cried my way through it. I felt like the author, Alexandra Kuykendall, was speaking to me. To me. And why Baker would publish a book written expressly for me I didn't know, but I was so grateful they had.
Then I put the book on my shelf. I didn't have time for its experiments and its challenges and its hardness. I always intended to pick it back up, because I intended to do the experiments myself. I intended to dedicate these next nine months of the school year to loving my actual life. So, knowing how quickly I get distracted, I figured I should pick it back up. I wanted to read through it all once before school starts the day after Labor Day and then go through it again, chapter by chapter, month by month.
Once I got started a week or so ago, I realized I needed to start my months a bit sooner. So I revised my goal to finish the book before the end of July so I could get started on August 1. Reasons to come in a minute.
It may sound silly, but I had to work to get this finished by July 31. When the vacations end and the realities of being a work-at-home mom and a work-from-home mom set in, my reading time is relegated to the quickly fleeting hour between when my oldest is tucked in bed and when I should be tucked in bed. That's also my "catch up on a TV show," "check Pinterest," "write," "tidy up the house," and "figure out the plans for tomorrow" time. (See why I need this book?) But this was important to me, and I was going to make it happen.
And I did!
I entitled this post "Following Through" not because I needed an F (though I did), but because that is one of my greatest challenges in life. I am a fantastic starter. There are very few people who can prepare and begin as well as me. That said, most of the projects in my house are still unfinished, I have four started novels that dream of being submitted for publication and an additional five stories I've started for my sisters and friends which are still half untold, my Bible through the year plan has 1/4 of the check boxes empty, I keep gaining and losing the same ten pounds, my tennis shoes and running clothes are still stacked next to my bed, and the majority of the laundry in our house is washed and dried but unfolded in baskets in the basement and laundry room.
I'm a goal setter. I'm a dreamer. I'm not a doer. I'm not a follow-througher.
Until last night. Now I did it. I set a goal for myself, I decided to bump it to a shorter time frame, and I did it! I FOLLOWED THROUGH ON SOMETHING!
Yes!
So now what? Now I can do it in other things. That's what I've shown myself. And I'm going to need that this year. There have been many books I've thought, "Ooh, I'd like to work my way through this over the next month." Those books are now dusty on my shelf, most of them more than half unread. But this one is different. This one needs to be different. I feel like my life depends on this one. At least loving it does.
Alexandra Kuykendall set out on a 9-month experiment to love her actual life, in its chaos and mundaneness and mess and joys. And she laid out the plan for us to follow. So I'm going to. This is the life God gave me, and I think he meant for me to love it . . . not just tolerate it.
She started out with "embracing quiet." I can see that, and I need to do that. I need to do all the things, but this is a 9-month experiment. And I'm going to start where I need to. With following through.
Month 6 for Alex was Home Organization, but that's Month 1 for me. There are a few reasons for that. One is to show myself that I can follow through. We moved into our house just over a year ago (like the end of the July), and I have several started projects to decorate and organize that I have planned or even begun (is a can of paint still good after one year if I never even opened it?) that are now shoved in a drawer or used as a door stop to keep the cat out of our bedroom (that can of paint is good for something at least!). So I want to follow through with those, and I want to see progress. Beautiful progress. On my walls. Another reason is because school starts next month. This is my last month of summer, and I still haven't organized the papers and projects from last school year. Before I bring the chaos of 2nd, 3rd, and 6th grades into my house I need to get rid of the chaos of 1st, 2nd, and 5th. Finally, this is where I want to start. So I might as well make it fun, right?
Month 1: Home Organization
What I will actually do:
Finish two house projects a week. (Even if I have to hire them done. Then I need to work that into the budget.)
Pick up items to put away as I walk through a room.
Make sure my bedroom is cleaned before I go to sleep.
Enlist the family's help in folding and putting away laundry so baskets are empty in the laundry room by Monday morning.
Clean up breakfast and lunch before dinner every day--including the dishes (don't judge; I'm bad at follow through remember?).
I'm going to journal my successes and failures like Alex did, and I'll even share some of what I learn here. Then I'll list out Month 2 as well. Because half of follow through is knowing someone will check in with you to see how you did.
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